You might think that after having a public self-image crisis that a person's chances of finding new friends are slim to none but, don't run off into a corner just yet because there's hope.
No, it's not fair that you are being unaccepted, ostracized, bullied, or rejected just because you was seen in an unflattering picture; at a questionable location or doing questionable actions; as part of a risque' group; or dreadfully after being falsely accused or maligned and character assassinated among your family, friends, colleagues at work or, on social media during an unhealthy part of your life.
Being socially rejected has a real-life impact on a part of your brain called the anterior cingulate cortex. Multiple studies have conclusively shown that being ostracized causes deep pain that can last longer than a physical injury although it doesn't leave any bruises. According to an article on sciencedaily.com, the process of ostracism includes three stages: the initial acts of being ignored or excluded, coping, and resignation. This can leave the healthiest person feeling depressed, overstimulated, and going down a dark path.
Luckily, there are experts out there that can get you on the right track with your self-image. But, let's say that you don't have the big bucks to hire an expert or that you're a little skeptical and want to weigh your options;
Consider these 3 tips and tricks:
Time - Once you've identified your potential new friend make an effort to schedule regular meetings.
Money - Once you've identified your potential new friend buy things and spend money on things that makes it a pleasant experience to be around you.
Food - Don't forget- everyone loves a good meal!
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